broken

1 Comment
daily, just life

Two very long, early-starting, long-running days on a construction site, shooting videos of the construction, equals a broken me. You wouldn’t think that’d be so bad, would you? I certainly didn’t.

And yet, everything hurts, I can barely move and I’ve got a headache that’s off the charts.

It wasn’t so much the standing around for hours, or the trying-to-hold-very-very-still while videoing without a tripod, or the high-stepping through the debris, or the long (high-stepping) walks required to get to anywhere, or the unaccustomed weight of a hard hat on my head, but all of that, combined, two days in a row. Oh, and I wasn’t exactly fit to begin with, bleh.

On the plus side, it was interesting to watch, if somewhat dangerous at times. But I didn’t die, so well done me!

The plan now is plenty of stretching and hot soaks, and hopefully I will be human again soon.

mishmash

No Comments
daily, dog, just life, music

I kinda feel like I wanted a longer weekend, but that would probably mean we’d've tried to cram in more stuff, and I had quite enough stuff to be going on with, thanks.

We helped with the easiest move ever on Saturday, shuttling KT’s stuff to her new townhouse, then took the dogs to the park. It was Freya’s first time, and it was comical how quickly she realized that flipping her Fierce switch in the company of strange dogs might not be the best plan.

She still has way too much energy, though — I woke up Sunday (too early, far too early) to a swathe of destruction that is becoming only too familiar. So far she’s eaten or destroyed: a bible, a PS3 controller, a tube of superglue, some slippers, a 100-year-old first edition, a book of dirty jokes, and an 80-year-old Don Juan. You fuck with my Byron at your peril, Little Miss.

Oh, and she peed on the library rug.

Cue several hours of cleaning and crankiness, that was only alleviated by the arrival of my birthday masseuse. Oh, gods, y’all. That massage was so very, very good. Loki does a mean shoulder pummel, but having someone work all the bad muscles at once was heavenly. I’m going to do a few weekly sessions at her health-institute-place, because I am just that broken.

I took my newly-relaxed self to the Low Men show, turning up at 5 with Loki, because that’s when all the bands were told to turn up. Why? We don’t know. It certainly wasn’t to load in & soundcheck, because there wasn’t enough room for one band’s equipment, much less that of all 9 bands on the bill.

Plus there was some confusion as to the Low Men’s set time. Their set kept getting moved around until settling at 10pm, and wonder of wonders, it actually happened on time — a little early, in fact, a feat I consider a minor miracle. Of course, this meant we were hanging out at the Rhythm Room for five hours, sitting through several bands I’d rather have missed. Dreadful, dreadful stuff.

My camera batteries having died, I actually watched the entire Low Men set, and I’m glad I did. They all left a pint of blood on that stage, I tell you what: it was one of their best shows ever, tight and fast and good, and you’re now bummed you missed it.

They’re playing this Friday at Crabby Don’s in Gilbert, and you should totally come see them. It’s going to be good. No clue when their set time is, but somewhere in the vicinity of 11, I should think.

And now to plow through the rest of the week. Yay!

friday five

No Comments
daily

Wow, it’s been a long time since I’ve done one of these.

  1. If you had a jar of peanut butter, what would you do with it?
    Put it in kongs for the dogs.
  2. If you were to be cremated, where would you want your ashes to go and why?
    Well, if no one wanted to life-gem me, probably near the Buddha on Avery Island, because that’s where he first told me he loved me.
  3. If you could invent a flavor of jelly beans, what would it be?
    Really? Are there flavors Jelly Belly hasn’t done yet? Then in that case, Sesame Tofu from Red Dragon.
  4. What would your perfect paradise be like?
    I used to think the Hebrides, but maybe somewhere more like mainland Scotland, on account of the more trees. Alternately, a place that doesn’t get much above 75 or 80°r;F in the summer, or get much snow in the winter, and plenty of trees. Also, not a lot of people, but close to a good city, and high speed internet. Do you know where that might be? Let me know.
  5. If you could fly, where would you go?
    Like, fly without a plane, all Superman-stylee? I would go everywhere.

life’s like that

No Comments
daily, family, just life

So I had a pretty good birthday on Saturday: tons of good food (dips! empanadas! chicken-on-a-stick! cheeses! homemade ice cream!), nearly all my favorite people (Shawn & Peter came up from Tucson! I’ve missed them), plenty of Campari, etc. I’d done a lot of the food prep well in advance, so I was able to spend less time in the kitchen, yay.

There was much hilarity, too: Tom brought a Hulk pinata he’d got for his own birthday, and after Fenris was done barking at the strange guy hanging from the patio roof, we all took turns punching and whacking it until it finally broke apart. Good times!

Yesterday I woke up with a skull-splitting headache and upset tummy, and spent the morning ignoring the dishes in the sink and watching Top Gear reruns until Loki got out bed, when we switched to Band of Brothers. Also, I can highly recommend the curative powers of Mafia Mike’s toasted veggie sub.

And then this morning, my mom called to say her brother had died from the inoperable brain and esophageal tumors they’d found only a couple months ago. So obviously we’d known this was coming, but that knowledge didn’t make the news any easier to take. You always hope for a miracle, y’know?

So I’m throwing myself into work, hoping the day flies by so I can go home and hug my sweetie and the dogs and the kitties, and make them all promise never to die on me, and I’ll feel better for a little while, even though I’ll know they’re lying.

not the best holiday ever

1 Comment
daily, just life

I’ve been fighting with my body for a week, and it sucks.

I woke up Christmas Day feeling like I’d been steamrollered. I’ve never had body aches that bad ever in my life. Add in a nose and head clogged with epic amounts of snot and you’ve got a very non-Merry Christmas indeed.

Still managed to crank out two lasagnas (one meat with red sauce, one mushroom with white sauce) (washing my hands so much to avoid contamination that every single finger sprouted hangnails) before collapsing back on the couch. I forgot to roast the asparagus & green beans, making for an all-carbs, all the time sort of meal. Happily, my lack of sense of smell led to really garlicky garlic bread, which was much appreciated.

I managed to stay awake until all our friends had arrived, then passed the hell out. And every day since has been much the same: Get up, stumble about, fight to breath through my 0.024 functioning nostrils, do nothing much constructive, pass out, sleep really badly.

Here’s hoping I recover enough to enjoy New Year’s Eve.

night of strange and painful

No Comments
daily, just life, music

So The Low Men played a show last night, and of course I went, but it was … strange. And painful.

I mean, entirely aside from the fact that their set was meant to be at 10:30, then got moved back to 11:30 until finally settling on 12:30, it was strange. And painful.

When we walked in, there was a singer-less metal band rocking the hell out of the place at ear-punishing volume, including a metal version of March of the Sugarplum Fairies, which was just as weird and/or awesome as you might imagine it to be. They were followed by a guy in a Santa hat and brown leather jacket playing all by himself, accompanied by his acoustic and a mostly-decorative neck harmonica.

While he was finishing up his set, KT texted to say she’d set off for the show, but narrowly escaped being hauled off to jail, and wasn’t allowed to drive, so she wasn’t going to be coming. We couldn’t be having with that, so we went and got her.

We made it back to the bar only one or two songs into the Low Men’s set, which was … interesting. It was Mr. M-F.P.’s birthday, so he was nearly legless, and since Loki isn’t the sort to make people drink alone, he was well into his cups as well. And since they hadn’t played together in a month (the show was seriously last-minute), it wasn’t their finest hour. (It was still better than last year’s Black Friday debacle. So they’ve got that going for them.)

Following the show, there was a near-throwdown over some apparent breach of beer-pong ettiquette (no bitches were cut, alas), followed by a very drunken boy who jumped on the stage to tell a terrible joke. We thought that was the end of the entertainment, until the Rhymenocerous (not his real rapping name) took over with his friend boy Steve (his actual real rapping name) to bust out some rhymes. Or something, I don’t really know. I dragged Loki home shortly after that started.

So we got home and let the dogs in, then went back outside to pick up the cushions they’d dragged off the patio furniture. I was carrying a couple cushions back to the patio when I stepped in a hole the dogs had dug, fell into the rocks, cut the hell out of my knee and hit my head on the chairs. Happily, most of me had fallen onto the cushions, so it could have been worse. I did have to pick dead vegetation out of my dreads before I went to bed, though.

And today I feel like people have been beating me with sticks, which they may well have done as I slept. It was that sort of night.

screenwriter’s blues

No Comments
daily

I’m thinking about movies I want to see.

Either:

The bastard lovechild of Neil Gaiman and Guillermo del Toro, a sort of MirrorMask meets Pan’s Labyrinth meets Big Fish, all saturated technicolor dreamworld with nightmares in the shadows …

Or:

More cold-war spy thrillers.

I should work up some treatments and then take some meetings.

bizarro world

No Comments
babble-mode, daily

Maybe it’s sleep-deprivation, but things seem especially bizarre today. And my responses to them are right out of “I should probably just shut up” land.

  • Beth asked me for my three favorite herbs/spices, and my head nearly exploded from the difficulty. “Wow, that’s a great question. Tough one, though. I mean, what does one gauge his response on: physical prowess, keen detection skills? The ability to banter well with super villains?” Seriously, I agonized for half an hour about passing over dill and smoked paprika.
  • We’re getting a gift for a young gentleman who’s into tae kwon do. Just for fun, I searched Amazon, and the third result was the category NINJA WEAPONS. “I know he’s into tae kwon do, but can I get him the Cold Steel Spike Scimitar? Or Ninja Extinction Arm Knives?” Ninja Extinction, y’all.
  • For dessert today, the chefs made us Cherry Nut Crisp. I got all excited (for I dearly love fruit crisps), dished myself up a heaping bowl, and discovered the cherries they’d used … were Maraschinos. This one, in fact, rendered me speechless.

I await the next weird thing with great eagerness.

catch-up

No Comments
cats, daily, dog, food-girl, just life

When last we left our heroes …

Thanksgiving: Was pretty damn cool. The food was superb (if I do say so myself), the company outstanding, and the wine flowing. I can highly recommend the Blanc de Noirs I found at Trader Joe’s. So delicious! (I went back & bought three more bottles, because apparently my fizzy-wine kick will never end. Also, at $10 a bottle, it’s far cheaper than the Moet & Chandon I was digging before. Win!)

As usual, though, a week’s worth of prep, cleaning and cooking left me wrecked, and I was in bed nursing my aching muscles at 9:30. I’ve got to figure out a way to do Thanksgiving that doesn’t involve half-killing myself in the name of food.

Dogs: They’re doing great. Freya’s fitting in quite well, although she doesn’t really get that Fenris doesn’t always want to play, nor that, alone among the cats, Carrot will play with her. Doesn’t stop her chasing them, although she’ll stop chasing if we bark at her.

House: Things are really coming together, finally. We’re cleaning and purging and organizing and getting things just as we want them. Sometimes I just stop and look around and am amazed that we’ve created this cozy place that I want to come home to. It makes me feel a bit uncomfortable, too, because others don’t have that. Fingers crossed that situation improves.

Everything Else: I’m feeling pretty good. Fairly sleep-deprived, and there’s something horrifically wrong with my back, but overall? Not so bad. It’s kinda nice, and I’m enjoying it.

So what’s new with you?

we shall not flag or fail

No Comments
daily, family, food-girl

I can’t escape the Thanksgiving battle plans checklists … this is the biggest Thanksgiving we’ve ever had & I’d be lost without my lists.

  • Recipes: Printed.
  • Schedule: Triple-checked.
  • Turkeys: Defrosting.
  • Prep: About 75% complete..
  • Cleaning: Nearly there.
  • Mind: More or less intact, yay.
  • Body: Still not completely destroyed, hurrah!

I’ve got tomorrow off work, and I’m hoping I can knock out the last of the prep, and get a good night’s sleep, so I can be ready to kick ass on Thursday.

Oh, and relax with our guests. That’d be nice, too.

I really have to stop thinking of this meal in terms of a battlefield that must be conquered. It’s just dinner, right? No beaches or landing grounds to fight on, just 40 pounds of turkey and enough sides to make the sideboard groan.

Onward to victory!